Thursday, January 19, 2012

Luahan hati yg sangat bernilai..DSG

Hari ni hati saya sangat sedih membaca ujian dan dugaan yang dikongsi bersama di DSG (Doctorate Support Group). Besar sungguh ujian2 mereka jika dibandingkan dengan sedikit yg Allah berikan untuk saya. Subhanallah. Tak tertahan rasanya membaca entry2 mereka...saya berdoa semoga mereka kuat dan tabah menempuh segala. Mulai dari saat ini saya berazam utk selitkan sedikit dia khusus utk sume ahli DSG. Semoga dengan usaha yng sedikit ini dapat membantu sume ahli DSG menjadi kuat dan tabah dalam menjalani perjalanan ini. Walaupun kebanyakkan ahli DSG tidak mengenali antara satu sama lain...tapi kami bagaikan saudara dan adik beradik. Everything we share together dan saling bantu membantu...begitu hebatkan silaturrahim yg ikhlas ini. Allah Maha Besar...Catatan ini hanya sekadar peringatan utk sume yang melaluinya ..yg bakal lalui atau yg sudah melaluinya. Ini juga merupakan catatan peribadi individu yg terlibat supaya dapat dijadikan ikhtibar dan semangat utk terus berjuang....Semoga semua ahli DSG akan berjaya...cemerlang dunia dan akhirat..

Assalam. anyone from Mass Comm? doing PhD?.. I did post here, asking how to cope with PhD.. but still I feel like giving up~ :(
· · · January 13 at 4:52am
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    • Anita Adnan salam Nadia, i'm not doing Mass Comm, but i knew how you felt - esp in the first year! jgn give up lagi - take your time. mmg kita akan rasa overwhelmed, the first year of coping. i had a bad first year ( ayah meninggal, family visa sangkut, Sv sakit kanser ) and i know about giving up...but luckily, i'm still here , writing up now, and hope to finish really soon. so, jgn give up lagi, mintak bantuan. mesti ada jalan :)
      January 13 at 5:12am · · 7
    • Yushiro Rhys Nur nadia...you must start your intention well and enjoy every minute of phd journey.
      January 13 at 5:15am · · 2
    • Yushiro Rhys http://public.randomnotes.org/richard/PhDtalk.html
      January 13 at 5:15am ·
    • Anita Adnan i agree with good intentions :) sebab kalau kita paksa diri, mmg kita akan stress. try and take a break, see how it goes. you can always continue later - you are still young :)
      January 13 at 5:19am · · 4
    • Haida Baba Zain Hi Nadia, I'm doing media studies, what are you stuying? Don't give, Hang on, If Allah put you to it, He will help you go thru it
      January 13 at 5:23am via mobile · · 5
    • Azwin Arif i'm not young- i'm overwhelmed-i'm groping here and there- i make it a HOBBY... then i smile
      January 13 at 5:32am · · 1
    • Aini Khairul Everything happens for a reason. Allah makes you a PhD candidate for a reason too. There must be hikmah behind it. Tawakkal and move on Nadia. InsyaAllah you can do it. :)
      January 13 at 6:00am · · 9
    • Alia Maisara Nadia, you must be strong and always motivate yourself, i'm also facing with many family problems during my first year till mid of my second year.But Allah will always with us,insyaAllah you can do it.All the best and good luck.
      January 13 at 8:27am · · 2
    • Nur Nadia I'm in my second semester, doing visual comm. But I'm not from masscomm, i studied business then do masters in Art becoz of my passion with art. Then, i was offered teaching in comm becoz they need someone to teach design software and luckily they offerd scholarship to further studies. But masscomm is not my field. I got married last year and the first 2 semester I got pregnant, and had morning sickness the whole 8 month. no progress. Then pantang, so no progress. My husband passed away when my baby is 2month old. I admit, i'm not that strong. He was my strength. Now.. I have no one. I'm still mentally unstable.. My supervisor.. her respond was.. i got demotivated~...
      January 13 at 10:52am ·
    • Nurulhuda Abd Rahman Your kid is your strength now!... Moga dipermudahkan...
      January 13 at 10:56am via mobile ·
    • Susana Narawi Nur Nadia, tq for sharing yr problem. I agree with all advices given to you above esp what said by Aini Khairul. Yr story is indeed valuable to remind myself and some DSG friends >>> we should be glad that our problem are not as bad than others. But trust me, Allah Maha Pengasih dan Mengetahui.
      January 13 at 12:10pm · · 1
    • Afzan Nor nadia: when i was attend PHD preparation course, the presenter had mentioned that, at the moment u registered as PHD candidate, u must be ready to face unbelievable obstacles or any challenges that u're not expect. and that was true when my mother in-law passed away a month after i become as phd student (she stayed wth me)...so after this, u hv to be ready in any situation u r in...be tough n sabar byk2..don't forget Him n ur journey akan diberi kelapangan...good luck
      January 13 at 12:18pm · · 3
    • Dzaza Kyadizah Hai Nadia.. Im from mass comm doing PHD now.. banyak2 kan bersabar.. Ingat Allah SWT.. dan jadikan anak sebagai semangat belajar awak... Insya Allah..
      January 13 at 3:48pm ·
    • Anita Adnan masyallah - Nadia, hebat dugaan Allah untuk u. apa2pun, kita hanya boleh bagi pendapat - yang lalui semua ni, is yourself, kan. so, take time to think what's best. insyallah, ada jalan terbaik. Kita semua diuji. Take care ya.
      January 13 at 4:39pm · · 3
    • Wan Rasyidah ‎Nur Nadia, the best is to seek Allah's guidance, buat istikharah dengan ikhlas & yakin ... insyaallah, He will help you!
      January 13 at 5:13pm · · 2
    • Ku Peah moga Allah permudahkan perjalanan hidup u... amin...
      January 13 at 7:59pm · · 1
    • Teeni Ghani sedih baca kisah u Nur Nadia...dun werry you have all of us here !! insyaallah
      January 13 at 9:00pm ·
    • Halimatussaadiah Salleh kisah Nur Nadia itu menginsafkan saya...ada insan yang lebih sukar laluannya berbanding saya...moga dipermudahkan segala urusan kita semua...
      January 13 at 9:17pm · · 5
    • Siti Nor Haliza Osman ‎Nur Nadia...take a break first...bercuti dulu.....nie berdasarkan pengalaman diri sendiri.....moral support is needed here...pulihkan dulu diri...tengok anak.....panjatkan doa kepada Illahi....kumpul semula kekuatan...insyaalah Allah akan membantu Nadia.....
      January 13 at 9:28pm · · 2
    • Hani Salwah Yaakup oh my...i'm doing mass comm and i feel like it too...oh my...kenapa i pun rasa nak differ dan cari masa dan coping...i know exactly you feel :(
      January 13 at 9:40pm ·
    • Rafeah Wahi insyaallah everything will be okay in the end. if it's not akay, it's not the end. ujian datang dari Allah dan percayalah Dia akan bagi jalan mcm mana kita nak selesaikannya. cuma 1 je, takde apa yg akan berubah melainkan kita buat sesuatu untuk mengubahnya. saya bersyukur ditemukan dgn DSG ni, kita saling tak kenal tapi saya perhatikan semua orang di sini really support each other! semoga Allah merahmati kita semua..amin..
      January 13 at 9:49pm · · 7
    • Dzuhani Richidie sy sedang berada di tahun 4 my phd... since thn 2 sy teruk sakit misteri. Progress Phd sy mmg teruk shggalah sy ambik keputusan ambil cuti sakit selama 6 bulan kerana Dr pakar pun pening tak tahu apa yg punca masalah kesihatan. Badan menjadi lumpuh, minda lemah, mcm2 sakit pelik menganggu. Dlm tahun terakhir CB akhirnya pertolongan Allah sampai jua... kesihatan kembali pulih, dan sedang berusaha untuk habiskan phd ini. Bagi sy, setiap org mempunyai episod dugaan masing2. Usah dibandingkan diri kita, progress kita dgn org lain kerana ujian kita tidak sama, namun matlamat kita tetap sama tuk dapatkan phd. Just berusaha, bertawakal semoga Phd itu menjadi rezeki anugerah Allah utk kita...
      January 13 at 11:01pm · · 14
    • Wan Zumusni Wan Mustapha PhD is not just an academic journey but the challenges can be in so many forms. I've lost my baby @ 2mths (sudden death), had accidents twice, lost a house, a car, maid after 3 yrs, husband (dvorce), remarried, berubat with ustaz during my CB (whole family sakit misteri), I thought I almost died when my 'hijab' was lifted & went thru near death experience many times but after 6 yrs & when my mum read me the letter from UKM that I've passed last 2 days - I cried & sujud syukur. Alhamdulilah, my SV has been very supportive & ustandg. This journey has made me closer to Allah, so humble. Nothing else matters. God is great.
      January 13 at 11:52pm · · 17
    • Ruslina Ibrahim Subhanallahhh..adakah calon2 Phd akan diuji begini?... kepada sdri Nur Nadia, insan2 yang terasa tidak diuji juga adalah satu ujian pd mereka.....leka,alpa atau peka...(nway..i'm a masscomm holder (journalism) unfortunately,..still the beginner in MEd. i got 2 frens doing Phd in MC..
      January 14 at 12:06am ·
    • Yushiro Rhys Allahuakbar...sedih dgr kisah wan zumusni dll walaupun masa sy buat dulu x dak byk halangan sgt. Alhamdulillah. Semoga saudara/i bersabar dgn ketentuan Allah swt.
      January 14 at 12:34am ·
    • Teeni Ghani the sharing make me stronger...thx all !!
      January 14 at 12:36am · · 3
    • Rahim Khamis bila baca comments dari kawan akan ujian2 dlm nak hbs PhD membuatkan terpikir kejap.
      January 14 at 3:20am · · 1
    • Aini Khairul Nadia, I am sorry to hear about your husband. Orang yang Allah uji adalah orang yang Allah sangat sayang . Nadia adalah manusia yang dalam kasih sayang dan perhatian Allah. Hope you will keep on going and Redha dengan ketentuanNya. InsyaAllah ada rahmat disebalik semua ini. Doa Aini untuk Nadia dan anak. Don't give up. Belajar juga satu ibadah dan tanggungjawap yang Allah beri. InsyaAllah you will be fine one day.
      January 14 at 3:31am · · 4
    • Chĕndĕra Kirana Let us all pray for Nur Nadia. hang in there, sis! this PhD soon will be worth it, insyaAllah. May Allah make ease all our PhD journeys.. Amiin..

      Let's not forget this life itself is nothing, but a test..
      January 14 at 4:04am · · 3
    • Noridah Ramli Bagus ada rasa begitu krn naluri semula jadi kita akan berlwnan dgn apa kita fikir... Oleh itu dgr kata hati bahawa Allah mahu hambaNya berusaha bersungguh tanpa putus asa... Mohon kekuatan daripada Allah. Semoga Allah permudahkan urusanmu...
      January 14 at 6:11am ·
    • Ida D'Cloud Watcher To all my DSG friends, especially Wan Zumusni Wan Mustapha, Dzuhani Richidie & Nur Nadia ~ ikhlas saya doakan semoga Allah SWT memberikan rahmatNya dan balasan yang terbaik untuk ujian getir yang telah anda lalui. InsyaAllah. *I know how it feels, been there too*
      January 14 at 9:14am · · 1
    • Maimunah Nasir MasyaAllah..betapa peritnya ujian2 itu, tidak tertanggung rasanya. Saya baru menjadi PhD student 2 bulan. Sudah terasa tegang dan stress, namun sebagai seorang muslimah saya yakin Allah telah menjanjikan sesuatu untuk saya, maka saya harus tabah dan meneruskan perjalanan ini dengan jayanya. Saya terpilih dan saya bersyukur...perlu diingatkan peranan kawan2 sangat penting ketika kita mempunya masalah seperti ini...tempat untuk kita meluahkan perasaan, usah dipendam...sharing is caring. Ingatkan Allah banyak2,. Moga Wan Zumusni Wan Mustapha, Dzuhani Richidie & Nur Nadia tabah dan teruskan perjuangan.
      January 14 at 10:02am · · 1
    • Lenny Erwan Nur Nadia, jangan give up. Awak dah menempuhi dugaan yang sangat berat, pasti yg selebihnya anda mampu. Insya Allah, doa kawan2 tulus ikhlas di sini untuk anda. Teruskan mencari ilmu dan perkongsian drpd orang lain. Anda seorang yg sangat kuat, saya salute.
      January 14 at 10:49am ·
    • Wan Zumusni Wan Mustapha thanks Ida D'Cloud Watcher for your doa. Nur Nadia, we as DSG alw make doa for each other. I know the day will come when u get a letter from ur uni stating that u've passed & will attend your convocation. Till then, take a day at a time with a smile. I have many people to thank who have been supporting me in my PhD journey emotionally, financially, spiritually & so on. It's pay back time
      January 14 at 4:33pm · · 2
    • Ness de Vinci Salam nur nadia, saya doakan semoga dikuatkan semangat utk teruskan PHD jgn la bersedih, setiap yg berlaku itu hanya ALLAH sahaja yg tahu rahsianya...pasti ada hikmah.
      January 14 at 6:50pm ·
    • Husna Amir i just want to say that i too had my problems but only during my 3rd year - never realised it was a problem until then - i could not cope with it anymore and it really affects my focus on my phd. so i braced myself and seek for help. went to the counselling unit at my uni and had very good sessions. alhamdulillah feeling much better than before. i was needing someone to talk to because it was a very personal issue but obviously not to any random strangers. the psychologist i've been seeing for the past 5 mths has not only helped me to uncover underlying issues (when u have so many issues sometimes it's worth knowing which one of them is actually affecting u most in order to know how to deal with it) but also made me realised that it is very normal to experience what i was dealing with and importantly i now hav the courage to move on and deal with it as i believe i hav overcome the fear. told my sv abt me seeing a psychologist and we got so much closer since then. u probably have not grieved enough and sometimes the fear of the unknown could really dominate our reasoning. it worked for me, maybe seeing someone professional could help u too. but the first step is always the hardest. talk. express. share. dont blame urself. deal with it. move on. believe in Allah.
      January 14 at 7:23pm · · 4
    • Anita Adnan you guys know what i'm thinking? nanti satu masa, kita semua kena jumpa face to face and hug each other :) maybe we can organise DSG informal conference or something. tapi tunggu saya balik dulu ya :) what do you think, Sheeqin Mn? and WanZumusni , congrats for your good news - you really deserve it, Dr Zunie! :)
      January 14 at 7:39pm · · 9
    • Adna Wani Salam semua, bila dgr cerita kawan2 seperjuangan terasa insaf, sbb sebenarnya ramai sahabat yg lebih hebat ujiannya. PhD benar menguji diri kita, kadang tu rasa sepatutnya proses ini menjadikan kita lebih matang tapi menjadikan kita lebih tak keruan. Kena selalu ingatkan diri kita hanya mampu berusaha selebihnya Allah swt yang tentukan apa yang terbaik buat kita... Semoga perjuangan kita di berkati oleh Allah swt dan hati kita terus tabah menghadapi segalanya...
      January 14 at 9:02pm via mobile · · 4
    • Sheeqin Mn ‎Anita Adnan, ekin ok jer.....
      January 15 at 7:57am · · 1
    • Rohani Che Hashim Subhanallah, tiada kata2 lg utk sy ucapkan kerana semuanya sudah diluahkan oleh sahabat2. support from friends really help but the most is seek and ask it from Allah swt.minta sungguh2 dik.Allahuakbar
      January 15 at 10:17am · · 3
    • Nur Nadia http://www.facebook.com/rasfan.a.kassim was the only person who understands.. motivates me to never give up PhD.. Thank you very much for your support.. Thanks so much for the encouragements.. What should i do now? where do i start? Can anyone share any good ways to get good articles and journals from viscom & media journals? I'm currently doing something to do with animation/cartoon & children's television programme, the effect to morality. Thank you.. thank you so much~
      5 hours ago ·
    • Lily Arif Assalam Nurnadia. *hugs* may u continue be strong. Allah itu maha mendengar...talk to him often, insyaAllah it will soothes ur heart, calm ur actions. That was what I did throughout my journey. Anyways, I am a comm major, let me know if u need help in anything k. Btw where r u right now? Us? Uk?
      4 hours ago via mobile ·
    • Nur Nadia ‎*hugss* thank you Lily, I'm doing it locally, uitm. I was an art major before, thats why its quite hard for me.. I'm doing something on television.. children's television like baby tv, cartoons and such.. because before, my thesis during my masters dgree, what i did was about multimedia learning using animation/cartoons for children.
      4 hours ago ·
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